While most of us might think that a hands-off-each-other approach is what defines masturbation, dictionary definitions of mutual masturbation usually include touching each other and there’s no reason not to blur that line. This might include you focusing on another part of your partner’s body while they masturbate, or you might be right in the center of the action. You might use parts of each other’s bodies in your own masturbation technique. Or maybe you come in right at the end, to help out with the big finish.
Mutual masturbation is a very pleasurable and fun experience. There is a fun website on mutual masturbation that has sexy women teasing each other, I highly recommend it! Maybe you think your masturbating habit is weird or you feel embarrassed, ashamed or plain afraid to share that with your honey. I promise you it’s not!
New things always take three or four tries before you can sink into the pleasure and let go of the awkward — or decide it really isn’t for you. Once you do, I promise you’ll become a mutual masturbation advocate too!